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Divorcing Your Abuser: How a Domestic Violence Lawyer Can Help

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When we plan down to walk the aisle and say “I do” to our partner, most of us never imagine needing help from a divorce lawyer, much less domestic violence attorneys. But statistics show that nearly 20 people are physically abused by an intimate partner every minute in the United States. That number doesn’t even account for the individuals who experience verbal abuse by their partners.

The tragic reality is that abusive perpetrators can be incredibly skilled at both hiding these situations from public view and in retaining control of their victims — whether it be through mental manipulation, physical threats, or financial restrictions. It speaks to the immense strength of victims who are able to successfully remove themselves from these dangerous situations. But even if you are able to physically leave, you may still be legally tied to your abuser.

That’s where domestic violence attorneys come in. Although criminal charges may sometimes be able to be filed against those who are accused of domestic abuse, that may not always be an option — and in some cases, the victim may not want to pursue it. However, a domestic violence attorney can still provide a substantial amount of help for those who are trying to divorce their abusive spouses and take back their lives. Here are just a few ways in which your domestic violence lawyer can provide assistance during a crucial time.

Domestic Violence Attorneys Can Help With…

  • Obtaining a protection or restraining order: One of the most important in securing your safety upon leaving a domestic violence situation is to pursue an order of protection (sometimes called a restraining order) against your spouse or partner. If you’re thinking of filing a restraining order in NJ, a lawyer can help you ensure that all documentation is in order. This can potentially increase the chance that the order — which could prohibit the abuser from making contact with the victim or even prohibit them from being close by — will be granted.
  • Filing a lawsuit against your abuser: In certain instances, it may be appropriate to file a lawsuit against your abuser in an attempt to recover a financial loss, medical expenses, or pain and suffering attributed to the abuse you’ve endured. An attorney can help you throughout this process and protect your rights if you decide to file a civil suit to recover damages.
  • Filing for divorce from your abuser: Of course, not all divorces involve domestic violence. However, fully extricating yourself from your abuser will often require a legal dissolution of a marriage. Your lawyer can provide assistance in this matter and ensure your interests are protected, particularly when it comes to the division of shared property and the ongoing safety of everyone else in the household.
  • Working to secure child custody: If you and your abuser share children, your domestic violence lawyer can also work to secure custodial arrangements for your kids that will keep them safe. Your lawyer will also be able to help with negotiating spousal support, in many cases.

Certainly, divorce is never an easy task. That’s especially true for victims of domestic violence. But with an experienced attorney by your side, you can feel confident in knowing your rights will be protected and that you’ll be guided through the process step by step. Ultimately, this will allow you to prioritize your own safety and the safety of others you love. For more information or to schedule a consultation, please contact our firm today.

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CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

A true professional
September 29, 2018
A true professional, caring and compassionate - Steven handled a complicated emotional post-divorce matter for me with all of the expertise and grit you would expect from a top Family Law Attorney, but Steven also has a deep care and concern for his clients best interest as a whole long after the matter is settled that I am proud to say for anyone considering him for your matter you should meet him and see for yourself. I'm sure you will feel as confident as I did that he is a Top Choice Attorney.
- Anthony
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June 21, 2018
Steven Segalas truly cares for his clients. He is knowledgeable, kind and a great negotiator! Served as my attorney for a difficult child support case and handled challenges with ease. He’s the one to have on your side. Would highly recommend him.
- Luis
Great Attorney
February 13, 2018
He knows his business as an attorney and keeps you updated. He is not only an advocate in court but outside of it. I cannot recommend him enough.
- Anonymous
Professional and Supportive
July 17, 2015
I absolutely do not know where I would be without him. I went through a 3 year divorce where my ex-husband changed lawyers numerous times. Steven was on top of every single aspect of my case and was there for me every single step of the way, he even spent Valentine’s Day in mediation with me. In addition to handling the divorce, Steven also represented me in my Domestic Violence Case against my ex-husband and secured a FRO (formal restraining order). The trial revealed very personal, embarrassing and painful information. Steven was nothing but professional and supportive. If you are looking for an attorney, you will be in excellent hands with him. Even when you are at your worst, he will hand you a tissue and make you smile!
- Bonnie
Outstanding Family Law Attorney
March 27, 2015
Steven M. Segalas is an outstanding Family Law attorney. I have worked with Steven as an adversary on many cases. Steven is an expert on Family Law. He is always up to date on statutes, Rules of Court and case law which bears on the cases we have handled together. I respect Steven’s strong advocacy for his clients. Steven knows when to fight and when to compromise. This is the true sign of a great Family Law attorney.
- Faith
A Great Attorney
March 16, 2015
A great attorney handled my divorce. My divorce and subsequent child custody matters were quite involved. Mr. Segalas was thoughtful and helpful throughout the process. He employed some out of the box thinking that allowed me to continue to have healthcare for myself and my children during a very trying time in my life. I always felt protected in court. Mr. Segalas was always ready to respond to whatever allegation was made in my direction from opposing counsel. I was very happy with his service.
- Anonymous
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March 10, 2015
Steve worked his magic to saved me from the X….Saved me thousands! Fast-precise-no BS. I would use Steve without second thoughts knowing you will be in the best of care & guidance!
- Mark
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February 27, 2014
My attorney makes ME a priority. He always explains the legal divorce process in terms that I can understand; and he has the ability to answer all of my divorce questions. The office is well-staffed for the follow up. My attorney has a team of lawyers and legal assistants trained to guide me through the divorce process and fight for my best interests. My attorney always presents a clear plan which includes all steps of divorce, information I need to gather, and a fee schedule. My attorney raise other issues I had not thought of yet that could have significant ramifications for the short-term and long-term success of my divorce. I go with my attorney who addresses my fears and concerns; exudes confidence and feels like a good fit for me ????
- Mark
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